Hello and welcome!

We are Rodney and Dianna Wehr and we are determined to create our lives through thoughtful action, although we often lose sight of that goal! We’re incredibly “normal” people, with incredibly “normal” lives, but we’re trying to identify and create our “best life.” The original intention of this website was to document and focus a life of deliberosity as we travel and experience the world, and to provide a platform to share and engage with others who also desire to live intentionally. Buuuuuut, mainly, it’s where our blog is posted. It turns out we haven’t been that great at maintaining an online presence … maybe just too wrapped up in living our “normal” life. 

We don’t have all the answers.

We can’t tell you how to live your life.


This website is merely an honest account of our actions, thoughts, travels, and blunders as we (intermittently) strive to live more deliberately. We (rarely) share resources that we’ve found useful and inspiring.  

We (infrequently) put our story out into the world with the hope to connect with amazing people like you, so that we may inspire and motivate one another in our mutual quest for a deliberately fulfilling life. 

We’re excited that you (somehow?!) found us and can’t wait to connect with you!!


I Wish I Were a Writer

I wish I were a writer, but I’m a mom. For years, I cried tears of grief for children that would never be. I spent days hiding from the world in my bed. Under covers of quilted down and of darkness and of sorrow. I was trapped, thick in the misery of never holding my …

What I’ve Been Watching – 01

I’m trying to incorporate motivational, inspirational, and informative media into my routine during chores and downtime. I’m going to share the pieces I found interesting and worthwhile for me. These first two videos are about mental health and ability, specifically the benefits of intentional breathing and the incredible untapped power of mindset. The third video …

I’m Going to Change My Mind

I’m not sure exactly which steps I’ll take, but steps will be taken. I’m tired of living with me. I can’t stand the person I’ve become and the person I’ve been for the last handful of years. I don’t know what happened, but I don’t like myself anymore. I have become more and more easily …