Hello and welcome!

We are Rodney and Dianna Wehr and we are determined to create our lives through thoughtful action. This website serves to document and focus our life of deliberosity as we travel and experience the world, and to provide a platform to share and engage with others who also desire to live intentionally.

We don’t have all the answers.

We can’t tell you how to live your life.


This website is merely an honest account of our actions, thoughts, travels, and blunders as we strive to live more deliberately. We share resources that we’ve found useful and inspiring.  

We’re putting our story out into the world with the hope to connect with amazing people like you, so that we may inspire and motivate one another in our mutual quest for a deliberately fulfilling life. 

We’re excited that you found us and can’t wait to connect with you!!


Hello again! A tiny bit of catch-up …

A crowded coffee shop, my Mannheim Steamroller’s Christmas music in my headphones to overpower the din of conversation and clatter of silverware. A steaming drink and a sweet treat … still hot, and all to myself, all by myself. Gosh, that sounds selfish! But I need it right now. I needed it all week, and …

Where are we now?

I just poured cold water into Nixin’s breakfast bowl. Nixin watched me, confused and a little amused, as my water bottle stood patiently nearby. That’s why we’re not going to Turtle Town this morning.  More accurately, we’re not going because Pyra is teething and she and I didn’t get enough restful sleep last night. I …

Sleep Training, Part 2- Not Quite Magic, But Close Enough

I’m sitting down during another no-fuss nap, after a night of good sleep. It’s been just over a week since we’ve started and the change to my life has been absolutely dramatic. It’s incredible to me how quickly and easily our nights were transformed from me getting up every hour and nursing Pyra back to …